These questions will probably haunt me for a very long time. Prior to Ex Boy, this was an issue I possessed myself- in the worst possible ways. Every guy that came my way- I'd lose interest as soon as I knew I could obtain them. The Ex Boy was the only exception, and after a while, this issue rang true within him, hence the cheating, then the lousy break up.
I don't think I've gone back to my nasty ways, at least, I won't know if I have or not until there's someone that is actually obtainable. But I do notice it still with guys. A LOT of guys are like this, too- Something about knowing you can't have something makes you want it more.
I guess I can't blame them. Especially since I used to be like that. I'm just getting so sick of playing this game all of the time- the game where, "I really want to text him- but I know I should wait 20 minutes so he wonders why I haven't texted him and then he'll want me more" monopolizes on my way of thought.
New philosophy. If you want to talk to someone of interest- do it. If you want to hang out with them, call them up and ask. If you get turned down, take a hint. But don't wait around thinking it makes you come off even more sexier. If everyone stopped allowing all this chasing business to go one, finding a good relationship probably wouldn't be as difficult.
Just some food for thought.
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